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2月26日 Loving itThe one question whose answer has been eluding crisp definition is “how do u know when you are in love?”. It is a question that can fire off a debate lasting hours and still leave all the participants in a state of mutual resentment or a state in which they agree to disagree. I am not even attempting to stake claim for having found the elusive answer. Pardon me if this blog is a little too cheesy or clichéd. After all romance is the most clichéd yet most sought after entity in the whole world. They say, you are in love with someone when you want to be with him not because you can live with him, but because you cannot live without him. You spend hours and hours with him and yet the moment he leaves, you miss him. You cannot stop thinking of him when he is away. When you hear your phone ring or beep, you hope, it is him. Love turns you- the you who used to snore at the sight of a bed- into a raging insomniac. You toss and turn building sand castles in the air. And then with a sudden thud, the sand castle collapses when you realize you have turned into the kinda girl you love to hate. The romantic mushy fulla shit heroine of the Hindi movies. You just laugh off your frivolousness and blame it on temporary insanity. The phone rings again and you find yourself hoping it is him but tell yourself it is just a crush or it is just your hormones acting up. So this is not love??? They say, love is when you know his flaws and still love him the same. That would mean you don’t flinch when he picks his teeth in front of you or your friends. You know that he is gonna make a racket with the cutlery, dragging a squeaking fork across the best of your china , yet you don’t look apologetic or angry. You don’t mind when he chews like a cow with half masticated food hanging off his mouth, chomping loudly and displaying the food for all to see. The burp that comes after the food does not surprise you. You don’t mind when he scratches his privates in public. You even find it adorable that he is wearing the same underwear for the past 3 days because you said he looks sexy in it. When you think you are about to fall in love, you must also practice carrying on a conversation with yourself because half of what you say to your boyfriend falls on deaf ears and he is not gonna respond either because it is beyond the scope of his emotion challenged brain or he is not listening. (Shhh… 90% of the time it is the latter, but guys claim it is the former) You love it when his ego flares up outta the blue and hit you on the face and he starts acting like a jerk. You adore his know-it-all seen-it-all attitude. Damn if this is love, I am better off without it. (In case you were wondering why most of the exemplary behavior revolves around food, I am yet to lay my eyes upon an interesting guy with good table manners. Most men eat like pigs. Period.) How the fucking hell do you know when you are in love???? Someone tell me!!!!! Till then I shall continue to believe that love is an illusion. 引用通告此日志的引用通告 URL 是： http://chalkcheeseandmore.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!3500510FEC3E30D1!109.trak 引用此项的网络日志
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